Boundaries that help
- Message windows and response expectations.
- Meeting limits and protected focus time.
- Clear scope: what is included and excluded.
- Escalation pathways for overload.
Language that works
- ‘Here is what I can deliver by Friday.’
- ‘I can do A or B—what is the priority?’
- ‘I’m offline after 7 PM; I’ll respond in the morning.’
Micro-practice
Choose one boundary and repeat it consistently for 2 weeks.
If you recognise yourself in this, start gently. Change is more sustainable when it is paced and compassionate. If symptoms are persistent, severe, or affecting safety, seeking professional support is appropriate.